Planning

Introductory talk (1st preliminary talk)

First we meet personally and without any obligation, while we get a first impression of each other. We take our time and exchange informally, laugh, rummage, you tell about youreself, your life, your environment. You will learn more about me (beyond the content of the website) and we analyse the current state of your planning of the wedding, as it has already been set. For some organizational points, at this stage I can already provide you first assistance, i.e. to establish contacts for specific service providers. Finally you consider during the conversation whether I am the right person to guide you through the wedding ceremony.

Did the spark jump? Yes? Great! I'm happy because I noticed you're phantastic, too!

Ok, now lets fix that in writing. Our first meeting finally culminates in the adoption of a contract and we make an appointment for the more concrete second preliminary discussion.

Thank you for your decision to book me as your free speaker for your ceremony. Together we will celebrate an unforgettable wedding, namely YOURS!

2nd (intensive) preliminary talk

Nice that we meet again today.

In the meantime, there are more details about your wedding? Great. Here we have to start today and clarify and specify such details, i.e. the exact date, time, place of the wedding, number of guests, your already known planned deposits, music, witnesses, seating and much more.

A very important aspect of this is YOUR wishes and rituals for YOUR ceremony (and please heed the "YOUR", because it is YOUR day, not the day of the relatives, not the day of the friends and their expectations, no! It is YOUR day!)

Some rituals you may already imagine, others I might suggest you (and believe me, there are many).

At this point I invite you to become curious about a special ritual: Together with my wife Bettina I offer you some great rituals with singing bowls. Pure goose skin feeling, unforgettable and unique, ... .. curious? Patience, more about it when we talk.

So, our image of the wedding ceremony has already taken on a clear shape during today's conversation.

Finally, I will hand you a questionnaire, which you will fill out independently of each other in the next days. The answers to the questions incorporated represent an important part of my speech. Answer them carefully and send them to me.

We'll see you again for the next preliminary talk. I am looking forward to it.

3rd (intensive) preliminary talk

We all used the time between the 2nd and 3rd preliminary talk intensively and the questionnaire was already evaluated by me. In addition, we have determined several times on the phone, and / or exchanged important e-mail.

Today, the ceremony is completed with the essential aspects. At the end of day the ceremonial is created.

At this point for you applies: ... .. Hurray done!

So let's try to exercise... We're going to do a dress rehearsal to stop any unforeseen surprises. As a result, you lose a chunk of nervousness, because the day of the wedding comes closer and closer with fast steps.

Final check of all details we agreed on. Everything still to be done is now my part. You may now sit back.

Telephone calls / E-Mail / or also a 4. Preliminary talk

Still a bit dizzy in the stomach? Stage Fright? There are questions?

No problem!

We clarify that in advance in any case. Here we look, whether it is already to be clarified by phone or we do meet again. No problem - just ask.

I want to prepare you "tailormade" for "Your Ceremony" on "Your Day" and to help you to enjoy this to the fullest.

And then……. Let's see you again at your wedding.